2011年10月18日星期二
This is the model that is used effectively to produce professional athletes.
 When you watch a Special Olympics, you see each person doing his best in  whatever event he has chosen. We adults are on our Kids' back about, "Go out  there and COMPETE." "It's a Dog eat Dog world outNike Pas Cher there in the "Real World" and  you have to be the Winner." However, when we adults choose to Compete (and more  often we choose not to Compete) we are very clear about when and how we are  going to do that. Repeating myself, losing all the time is no fun.Is winning  important to these participants? Sure, Puma Hommeand it must be kept in perspective.An  Ultimate Model for Kids -- The Special Olympic philosophy respects each person  regardless of his/her disability. He has degrees in Psychology, History, and  Education from Northern Illinois University. There are some really high level  games being played by some serious Chaussure TN Net Hommeadults in town leagues. Then we have Church  Leagues and a lot of people who can't compete in the town leagues have a lot of  fun playing. Anyone who wants can enter.There are the stars going for #1. We  Adults like this and we should.''Peter S. This makes the competition 'fairer'  than would a head-to-head contest -- my team, the poorer, has a better chance to  win.In golf, too. And we even have some Senior Citizen Leagues and they are  fantastic. Joe says, "O.K. No one is eliminated; the lights are left on for the  late finishers. There are many road races open to the public in large cities;  the Boston and New York Marathons; and in small cities like the 10K race in  Oglesby, Illinois. I suggest we have a small bet, "Let's play for a quarter a  hole." (I'm a real gambler). We compete in the league that matches our  abilities.Is winning important for all these players? Yes, but who cares; we're  having too much fun.Option #4 -- The Road Race Model. And a lot of these are  co-ed making them even more fun. Everyone can be a winner -- in his flight. We  start children off in baseball in Little League or Bambino League, Babe Ruth  League, American Legion Baseball. If they can't cut it, they're history.Is  winning important for these players? You bet, and it's OK for the developing of  the elite few.And, in the real world, very few of us compete that way -- most of  us are in the stands cheering for those who are representing us. Is winning  important to these participants.? To some, it's crucial. Each contestant is  acknowledged for his efforts. We want to win at least some of the time. It  really is a funny thing about competition. Pierro, EdD  parentscoachesasteam.comDr. He played professional softball, semi-pro baseball,  college basketball, and with an all-star U.S. Everyone is a winner -- winning is  the reward for risking and participating. Peter Pierro is a coach and parent who  is concerned about how our young athletes are treated by their coaches and  parents. Navy basketball team. It's easy to say, "Always play someone better  than you so that you will improve" but getting beat in 25 straight tennis  matches to Jane is not a lot of fun - we have to win sometimes. In the same way,  you don't want to play the Graysons every Thursday night. I've played golf with  some 'Competitors' like Joe and here's what happens on the first tee. You and  your spouse can win some bridge games against the Molinos so you play with them  and similarly gifted couples. To most of them, winning is not even a  consideration.Option #5 -- The Best of Them All We choose to play tennis, chess,  golf, and many other games and sports with people whose abilities are fairly  close to ours. In order to do that we set up some very distinct rules that must  be followed so that we can compete fairly and safely. My handicap is 18, what's  yours?" I reply, "I'm a 14, so I'll give you a stroke on the 3rd, 6th, 11th, and  15th holes." (The course even rates the difficulty of the holes so that I can  give him a stroke on the four toughest holes) That settles that -- everyone is  pleased about the arrangement and we can tee off -- Joe, the poorer player has a  better chance to be the winner -- to beat me.Is Winning important to these  participants? Yes, and we can keep on living if we lose.Option #3 -- The  Different Leagues Model We have softball games going on all over town here in  Oklahoma City (as in the rest of the country). Is winning important to these  participants? It sure is for some of them, even in the last Flight.Option #2 --  The Handicapping Model The team I bowl on now is in a league that uses  handicaps. As for us, we have our own ideas about "Competing in The Games." Here  are some of those models:Option #1 --The Flight Model Each year many golf and  tennis clubs have championship matches. high school basketball, a women's  softball team, a 12 and under boys baseball team, and was commissioner of a boys  baseball league. He coached jr./sr. They play in high school, in college, in the  minors and finally the best make it into the Majors. There are disabled and aged  people competing. He has been a consultant/contributor to the Amateur Softball  Association and the Oklahoma Soccer Association.Dr. Some of them set up  'flights.' The best 16 players are in the Championship Flight, the next 16 in  the First Flight, the next 16 in the Second Flight, and so on until all members  of the club are included and everyone is competing at a level at which he can  win. Don't let the poor players get in the way of the progress of the good  players. If my team averages 750 and yours averages 765, you have to give me a  'spot' or 'handicap.' Usually this is 2/3 of the difference, so your team gives  my team a 10 pin spot per game. Throughout this process, those who don't measure  up are dropped out or eliminate themselves. We do this while we often expect our  Kids to get out there and take some real risks.Let's look at the ultimate sports  model, The Big League Model, and then examine the options that we have created  for us adults in our later years.The Big League Model -- This is the model, the  model most people have in mind when they talk about Competition. There are those  trying to improve on their PR (Personal Record) There is your third cousin,  Sandy, going for the fun of it.There are the friends going along to support  their friends. If you're not good enough, you're cut from the squad.In using  this model with our teams, we have to separate the players, those who belong,  from the non-players, those who don't belong. Participants are successful or  unsuccessful according to their own goals, their expectations, or their PR.  Pierro has taught in elementary, junior and senior high schools and has been  Professor of Education at Elmhurst College and Oklahoma University..
  
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